You know what I am talking about when I say worship band. You think...cute drummer. It was always a hit for me when I was a teenager and I went to summer camp, a youth rally, whatever and I was enthralled with the guys in the band. I always thought it would even be fun to date one. They just seemed so talented and hot. WOW. I thought what passion they must have for the Lord to serve. I bought in to the groupie mentality.
And then my cousin John was in the band one year at summer camp. I was cool by association. It was kind of a big deal.
And then I met a pianist in Mexico. And we dated and fell in love. Then I married him. I am the official groupie for life.
So High School Christian girls, here are some things you should know about being a musician's wife (because clearly now I am an expert):
- sound checks start really early in the morning
- he tells me when singers, instruments, etc are out of tune and says "HELP"...hilarious
- just because he sounds great up front doesn't mean he wakes up like that. Gabo who studied 9 years in a Music Conversatory and has taught for 15 years still studies every piece of music for hours before even going to a rehearsal.
- he woos my mom with personal concerts
- even little kids are drawn to musicians
- traveling is a beast...plan to pack in one suitcase so he can carry all of his stuff. (it really is worse if he is a drummer. think of the cymbals and that big fat bass drum)- in general, Musicians are dreamers, visionaries and have tons of ideas. They don't always love making solid plans
- he can hear a song i love once on the radio and play it by ear for me
So ladies checking out the band....live in reality. They are a whole different animal in good and bad ways. Plus be careful, you don't want be lusting after your brother. That is just ugly.
From the journey,